Monday, May 20, 2013

☺ Motivational Mondays! ☺

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We're taking back Mondays!!!
"Motivational Mondays" are fabulous tips to get you excited and pumped for the week! 
Feeling low? Moody? Down on life? Well, that's what these posts are for! Time to feel awesome again and get some Positivity rolling! Just because it's Monday doesn't mean you can't have fun, smile, and enjoy Today! Apply these tips to your week and try to tell me that you don't start to see an improvement in your life! ;)
It's all about You! Change your perception, change your attitude, love your life! xo

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Stop Looking for Drama! I don't think I can even begin to describe the oxymoron of a post I wrote on my Facebook page the other day. It was meant to be positive, to remind people of how to be happy. Ironically, it turned into a drama fest of people bickering about it not being that easy. The point I'm getting to is: stop looking for drama. People are addicted to it and it only feeds the negative feelings inside yourself. Stop doing it. Which also brings me to my next point…   
Learn when to Walk Away!  Sometimes we get into arguments or heated discussions gone awry. You could continue the cycling of drama but chances are one person is as stubborn as the next and won't back down. Learn to walk away. There is no point in preaching or trying to explain something to someone who doesn't want to listen or can't see eye to eye. This goes both ways and maybe you don't understand where the other person is coming from either. It's always better to disengage from the drama and take a step back instead. Think for a bit. Just learn when to walk away. It is very valuable.       
Do you own Thing!  How many times have you wasted your day trying work around someone else's schedule? Yes, it's fun doing things with people but stop wasting your day on flaky plans. Get out there and do your own thing! Be bold and adventurous and be on your own time frame. No more wasting time! ;)  
Commuincate! I live in a very flaky place, people here tend to bail on plans or forget or any other number of excuses. Some people are just like that and I'm sure you can relate. Maybe you're one of those people too. There's nothing wrong with that but communication is key. So learn to speak up and to let people know what you're up to so that they're not possibly wasting their own day waiting for you. ;)   
Be Bold!  Eyeing up a cute stranger? Shy to speak to new a friend? Just go for it! I watched a friend of mine yesterday get shy about it and in the end saw her opportunity and took it. I was so proud. :) You don't have anything to lose by being bold! Maybe the person of your interest doesn't reciprocate the same feeling, but who cares? At least you're putting yourself out there and taking a chance! A chance taken is better than a chance lost!      
Write a Love Letter to Yourself! This is an awesome gratitude practice that should be done often. Take out a piece of paper (or on your computer) and write out a list of all the things you love about yourself. Remind yourself of how awesome you are and fill the page with positivity and love for yourself. Love for yourself is one of the most important things in life you can ever learn. So fall in love with yourself! 
"There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so." ~ William Shakespeare. People refuse to believe it a lot of the time but our thoughts truly are everything. Nothing is permanent and nothing is either good or bad. Whatever you want to believe then that will be your reality. Thinking is believing, and believing creates your reality. Choose a positive reality and stop turning something into the negative. You have a choice always always. 

Create a Nice Day!! 
Much Love from me to you! 


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1 comment:

  1. Ugh, I agree with you COMPLETELY! (Hence why I probably love Mitovational Mondays so much. Hahah.) It's such a hassle when you try to get a positive point across an people just start picking at it with their own attitude.

    And I'll try writing a love letter to myself when I finish my take-home final. I'm sure that'll give me an even bigger boost. :)


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